The beautifully hard road of adoption

This past week I have been reading through the book “Orphanology”, written by my brother and sister-in-law’s friend Tony Merida. Tony and his wife Kim have adopted 5 kids: 4 from the Ukraine and 1 from Ethiopia. I was blessed to meet these precious kids 2 years ago when I was in New Orleans. My favorite part of the book? Opening it up to see the signatures of each of these sweet children…such a vivid reminder of their changed lives.
One of the stories Tony mentions has really challenged me. A couple gave their adoption experience~ it was challenging and hard. A true roller coaster. But then they equated it to the suffering that Jesus endured to adopt us into His family. He gave His LIFE to make us His sons and daughters. Shouldn’t it be a joy, then, to endure suffering to adopt a little one into our family?
This thought has resonated with me the past few days. Jesus didn’t quit because the road was hard. He knew the pain and agony He was going to experience, yet He loved me and you so much that He finished the course. He endured ridicule, betrayal, and physical pain..because of His great love for US!
I think of Jesus’ walk up to Calvary. His final moments on earth. That walk must have seemed like it was taking forever. There have been days when Adam and I have felt like that…will we make it to the end? Then I think of the man on the side of the road that carried Jesus’ cross for Him because He was struggling. The heavy burden of the cross became overwhelming. That man is each of you~ You have carried our cross for us on so many days. I have saved every text, e-mail, voicemail, card that you have sent us. Adam and I are blessed by each of you. The road Jesus travelled for me to become His daughter was hard, painful, yet beautiful. This is the same for our baby.
As I reflect on what Jesus endured to adopt me, the love I have for this baby is overflowing. What a joy it is to press on for the fatherless and to bring “the lonely into families.” (Psalm 68:6)
Have you been adopted by God? Adam and I have..and would love to tell you how He can be your Father. He is waiting for you and continues to fight for you. His deepest desire is to finalize your adoption.

For He chose us in Him before the creation of the world to be holy
and blameless in His sight. In love He predestined us
to be adopted as His sons through Jesus Christ,
in accordance with His pleasure and will.” Ephesians 1:4-5

How great is the love the Father has lavished on us,
that we should be called the children of God!And that is what we are! 1John 3:1

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4 thoughts on “The beautifully hard road of adoption

  1. Lovely! I cant wait to celebrate with you! Hope you know Im expecting you to write a book about your experience. Love ya!

    Milca

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  2. Colleen, this is such a wonderful post. I could feel pure love for this child pouring from your heart. How beautiful is your comparison between God adopting us through Christ and families adopting children without parents. You inspire me beyond words. I love you child.

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  3. Colleen… Sweet friend. God is moving mountains as He moves your heart. The wisdom and inspiration you have blessed ALL of us through this journey is life changing. Hope/Noah's heart is wishing you a Happy Mother's Day. I love you beyond measure. xoxo

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